Sex and the Erotic Lover - The Magick Moon

Sex and the Erotic Lover by Mabel Iam.

With equal doses of responsibility and freedom for pleasure, Sex and the Erotic Lover offers all practical and theoretical keys to real sexual freedom, covering sex, color, religion, status, and place of residence.

This book helps maintain the balance and coherence between the inner world and the external universe enjoying each and every experience as if it were a game of flowing energies, enjoying the present time and trusting the dictates of the heart. The book works on the following principles:

* Creating a magical sacred place.
* Preparing erotic space in a magical and harmonic way using special methods like Erotic Feng Shui.
*· Mastering the secrets of erotic zones and their anatomic functions.
* Developing magnetism and sexual creativity.
* Learning to free and harmonize energy centers or chakras through meditation
* Increasing the pleasure of body and mind through illustrations of magical positions
* Exercising different positions and techniques to deepen pleasure.
* Profiting from unconscious erotic energy through the knowledge of the symbology of dreams.
* Ordering and balancing thoughts and emotions to solve sex blockages.
* Learning erotic magical rituals.

Like many spiritual paths, sacred or magical sex teaches the discipline of the mind and body. Sex and the Erotic Lover broaches all these subjects in a context of celebration, thereby allowing the discovery of unexplored terrains: the magical and sensual roads of life.

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The Dream to Be Loved
New Worlds Issue: NW055
By: Mabel Iam

When the lights are turned off, sheets tucked in and you drift into deep sleep, everything seems to be suspended. This is the time when your innermost desires and fears those that you won't recognize in your waking life are unleashed.

Do you know what your true wishes and needs are? How do you make up for not being able to meet your goals and fill your voids? Your dreams have something to say about these things. Dreaming is creating. Through these psychological pictures, you show your soul, your innermost desires, your secret hopes, your hidden fears and your unmet yearning for affection, security or solace. Dreams free all these for you. Your thoughts and wishes become reality for the length of the dream. For the moment, they are real facts, sometimes seeming even more real than the things you experience in your waking life.

Eroticism and dreams

The language of dreams is comprised of symbolic representations produced by the unconscious mind, and fueled by the energy of the emotional and mental experiences of our waking lives. These symbols and emotions, translated by our minds into images, reflect our current reality with all its ups and downs. The symbolic expressions in our dreams do not necessarily fit our waking experiences. This is especially true of erotic dreams, where we can generate infinite unexpected representations.

Erotic dreams are the product of very intimate sexual conflicts and emotional needs hidden in the most remote nooks of our unconscious mind. They can be frightening, joyful or frustrating. The content of the dream will indicate the degree of repression, the latent violence real or denied that can't be channeled into social life. The meaning of the dream points to the wide range of available possibilities the dreamer could enjoy.

Whatever the case, dream analysis is always an effective tool for self knowledge. In the specific case of erotic dreams, analysis can be a useful tool for learning to handle sexuality with more freedom. Talking about erotic dreams can help turn fantasy into reality.

Sexual magic explores the content of a dream with the aims of increasing self knowledge, achieving erotic ecstasy and forming a deep communication with the magical partner. Is it possible to connect to someone sexually in a dream?

Erotic connection exercise

During the first or last stage of a dream, our bodies are in a state of quiet vigil. It signals the midway point between consciousness and dreaming. It's important that we get in touch with the unconscious at this time so that we can access the information it possesses during our dreams. We can thereby learn to transmit messages and help solve conflicts through dreams.

It would be a great idea to do some creative visualization before going to sleep (see Sex and the Erotic Lover). For this purpose, you first need to breathe deeply and relax, either with your partner or on your own. If you are doing this exercise with your partner, you both should focus on the issue your partner needs to express in his or her dreams. Both of you should be clear about what you're trying to subtly put through to the other through the erotic dream. If you are doing this on your own, remember to write down all the results you get from this experience.

After having achieved the state of complete relaxation, try to focus on revealing the sexual or emotional conflicts that you are undergoing, or to understand why you can't connect while awake.

After this, repeat the following affirmation:

I (your name) want to connect with the superior self of (the name of the other person someone you're interested in or your magical partner) during my dream and I will understand and remember the dream. When I wake up tomorrow, I will write it down clearly.

You connect with the superior self of the other person so that you do not telepathically disturb your partner during his or her dream. Analysis can reveal the conflict at hand, and you'll be able to better understand and remedy the problems you're having.

You might be now wondering: have I had an astral flight to connect with my partner? The answer is no, you have simply searched through your unconscious for the knowledge that the superior self can transmit to your conscious mind. If you delve into the analysis of your dreams, you'll be able to understand all the barriers sexual impulse sets on our consciousness.

Illuminating our inner beings has to do with consciously handling our lives as unique and eternal entities that transcend all conscious or unconscious actions. Remembering our dreams permits us to make spiritual allowances for ourselves. When this precious work is done with our partners, we are in a position to experience the magical initiation of opening ourselves to the other. Then we can shed the light of love on the darkest side of our hearts.

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Create Your Own Erotic Mandala
Date: 2005-10-17 By: Mabel Iam

Create your Erotic and Perfect Mandala

Magic circles or mandala are symbols that form part of the knowledge you need to access the magic of eroticism. According to Tantric philosophy, once upon a time, the gods found an unnamed energy which vibrated in a perfect way between the heavens and the earth. They called it mandala, which means circle or circuit in Hindu.

The Tao mandala: Ying and Yang

Reading and studying have allowed us to reveal the millenary secrets of sexual magic. All the mysteries have been interpreted and explained in a practical manner, as exercises to be carried out in a certain amount of time and in a simple way, with the aim of heightening our level of sexual and spiritual consciousness through the different techniques.

Mandalas are circles which power the electromagnetic field of our body and mind, concentrating in them all the images or symbols of the different dimensions or cultures. Owing to the high degree of chemical change at cell level occurring during intercourse, the brain circuits are accelerated in such a way that sometimes, they won't even allow intercourse to succeed. This can be unblocked through the creation and meditation with mandalas.

The circular model of the mandala is an integrative element, for the circle is where all geometrical shapes are united, the triangle, the square, and all the variations on these shapes. When you create a mandala, you can include other figures inside the circle,

The circle represents oneness and divine origin

The triangle is related to the divine beam of creation

The square represents matter, and hence the materialization of everything inside us

To create a mandala, remember that polarities must be expressed feminine and masculine as they are expressed in all other vital bonds. One of the most popular magic circles in the world is the Tao mandala Ying and Yang, symbolizing the balance between the masculine and the feminine universes, the dark half, Ying, corresponds to the feminine principle while the white half, Yang, to the masculine. Tao followers use this mandala as a symbol of the perfect road.

Erotic colors

You can create your own mandala, and a different one for each day as well. You can do it on your own or with your partner, if what you're after is increasing sexual magic. The following are the colors inside the circle or each geometric figure inside it:

Red: symbolizes sexual power. Increases eroticism, and brings on strength and resistance. Fills the blood with oxygen and cleans it of toxins. After a relaxation or visualization exercise, the body balances the gland secretions.

Orange: with soothing effects, it acts directly on the central nervous system. Increases concentration powers during meditation, and that's why you should use this color for the center of the energy mandala.

Yellow: a natural emotion stimulant, it works wonders for harmonizing and materializing wishes and personal ambitions.

White: used in purification rituals because it's associated to cleanliness before intercourse or love. It breaks up negative situations and increases spiritual faith.

Light blue: a great spiritual generator, it magnetizes the environment and attracts great states of peace, protection and security.

Blue: cold and as such, it contributes to the leveling of anxiety and the control of obsessive sexual attraction fits.

Violet: the color of transformation of negative emotions. It works as a processor of negative thoughts because it represents the manifest spirit.

Pink: preserves love during intercourse whatever the feelings of the lovers. Integrates love and erotic passion.

Grey: the neutral color par excellence, it can be used to neutralize and create suitable environments to understand what is happening from a more detached point of view.

Green: associated with nature and living energy, its vibes are hypnotic and they make for total calmness in all the vital system of the body, for it acts directly on the psyche.

Brown: associated with constancy and friendship of those who help us in our spiritual growth. It can be used to improve a very conflicting sexual relationship. Also useful for attracting money and friendship.

Black: it absorbs light. Associated with feminine energy, the dark side of the Tao, although its effects can be different depending on how it is applied.

What you need to draw a mandala:

Creating a mandala is a way to discover your inner world, where the circle becomes a container for ideas and emotions. Before getting started, meditate for a while, so you can produce the images that will then show in your mandala. The first step is to organize your thoughts around a central theme. Express your creativity using the symbols, geometric shapes and colors that come to mind. The personal mandala at the same time captures and frees a moment of your life. Remember that drawing a mandala is like drawing your own mirror, a space you're reflecting. You will need:

Color crayons
Watercolors
Sharpener and eraser
Rulers and protractor
Compass
Fluorescent markers
Cutter and scissors
Triangles, circles, semicircles, squares, and other shapes you might want to add to your mandala, like a collage
omnigrid ruler and geometric shapes templates. You can get them at any stationer's or graphic arts stores
The power of the circle

Mandalas have a psychic function and are wrapped up in the flow of energy acting during the visualization exercise. You must meditate by focusing on one point of the mandala, in the center, until the magnetism of that image becomes integrated with your mind. Then, you should expand your attention away from the center.

Meditation with the different mandalas will unblock the energy that blocks a successful intercourse. Each mandala has its unique harmony, like a love song. If you want to create your own mandala to meditate, you can do it wither on your own or with your partner.

The meditation techniques with mandalas, their colors and shapes; the conscious meditation exercises with your partner or the specially designed exercises will be the components of your new life, a surprising new life full of love, magic, wisdom and power.

For more information about this technique, see Sex and the Erotic Lover.

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Love Ritual by Mabel Iam
Posted 4:08 PM PST, January 27, 2006

Perform a love ritual every time you feel depressed, when you have problems with your partner, if you feel low self-esteem, if you feel you are not desired or loved, or in any similar situations. Relax and find a quiet place. You may use aromas for the environment such as incense or perfumes. Listen to some calming music and dress in comfortable clothes. Lie down on a comfortable surface where you feel at ease.

Visualize each of the cells of your body, and imagine that they transform into small kisses with different characteristics and colors: red, pink, violet, sweet, healthy, passionate, sensual, and attractive.

Imagine that you hug your body and caress it in your mind, or wrap your arms around your body. When you really feel that you love yourself, imagine the person you desire is in front of you.

Hug and embrace that person in your imagination. You will see how the energy of love can make miracles happen in your relationship. Now visualize that the kisses and hugs come in your direction.

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Make your own seductive movie. By Mabel Iam
Posted 6:13 AM PST, January 27, 2006, updated at 9:50 AM PST, January 27, 2006

There are certain modern techniques based on communication psychology that show that a person can inspire seduction by creating clear mental images to transmit translucent messages to the listener. This mental movie should be very solidly constructed in the sender's mind before being transmitted. The person who is trying to seduce someone must transmit that image's energy based on feelings, emotions, memories, impressions, internal truths, beliefs, and magnetic and mental forces. Once the person has constructed a very clear image in their minds, and has succeeded in the seduction, then they can create an atmosphere ideal for lovemaking, following the recipes in the Love Diet.

The Love Diet : Expert Techniques for Sensual Pleasure and Mind-blowing Sex

The secret of seductive communication is to create a visualization in your interior, about what you want to achieve, that will be clearly transmitted to the person you want to seduce.

What are some of the elements that inspire seduction?

To effectively seduce someone, we have to have the image, idea or message we want to send to the other very clearly in our minds. It's like staging a scene in a theatrical production:

*Create the right environment for the seduction.

* Use the right dialogue to move the action forward. Our physical environment is like the scenery and backdrop for the drama.

* Write the script of your mental movie, with a very clear idea of what you hope to achieve in each moment.

* Know what tools you'll need to set the stage, and what wardrobe you'll wear, so you can be preparing in the leaving situation. For example: buy flowers, wear a particular outfit, tidy up a room, and on the inside you'll generate the right positive outlook and seductive energy.

* Pay attention and direct the gestures you'll use.
* Don't overly anticipate the results.
* Let your feelings flow, to produce the right outcome.
* Mentally and emotionally, be predisposed to a positive result
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Why have people always set so much store by kisses?
Posted 6:04 AM PST, January 26, 2006
By Mabel Iam

The act of kissing is not as complex as the sexual act itself and requires less from the couple, even though it may be as or more gratifying than sex. Kissing does not offer problems such as premature ejaculation, impotency, lack of lubrication, inhibited desires or cultural and psychological repressions that affect the pleasure of the sexual union. Even though our Western culture sees kissing as a mere demonstration of love, the power of a kiss is greater and the magic of love recognizes it and explores it as a genuine and significant way of achieving gratification. We can all distinguish the difference between simple, chaste lip contact and a deep and passionate kiss. Some women, especially those practicing Tao, can only achieve an orgasm with a true kiss. For Taoists these erotic kisses are like a divine revelation. They encourage kissing due to its low risk and high pleasure.

( Based on The Love Diet : Expert Techniques for Sensual Pleasure and Mind-blowing Sex)

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Mabel Iam
Mabel Iam is a recognized psychotherapist, advisor, and author. Eager to share her knowledge with others, this TV and radio personality is the author of numerous self-help books on topics ranging from astrology to sexuality. A trusted source for self-help advice in her native Argentina, Mabel is now making inroads in the U.S. Hispanic and English markets.

A sought after speaker, Mabel teaches workshops and seminars on Alchemy, angel summoning, Eastern Tao techniques, Psycho-astrology, sexual magic, and Tantra. She is a regular guest on such television programs as Despierta America and De Maanita, and writes regularly for prestigious international magazines. Her book, Qu hay detr de tu nombre?, won the 2003 Latino Literary Book Award for Best Self help Book at Book Expo America.

Since 2002, Mabel has taken part in several of the major international book fairs held in the U.S. In January 2004 her book, El Amante Perfecto was released in English and Portuguese. Mabel's work has been mentioned in such magazines as Latina, Library Journal, and Penthouse, and she has also been featured in Miami's El Nuevo Herald and New York's El Diario/La Prensa newspapers.

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My Dear Friends: Thanks for helping me to love.
Mabel Iam

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